Written by Gwen Soat, LCMHCA Romance Fiction Red Flags Last week we began unpacking the red flags we see in romantic fiction. This week we unpack the final six in our two-part series. 7. Romance Fiction Red Flag: Non-Consensual or Coercive Behavior Portrayed as Desire In romance fiction, a partner may kiss or touch the […]
Romance Fiction Red Flags: Unpacking Harmful Tropes in Fictional Love Stories (Part 1)
Written by Gwen Soat, LCMHCA Romance Fiction – Part 1 Falling in love through romance fiction is a common pastime for many creatives and story-lovers alike. We read of star-crossed lovers defying the odds, of enemies-to-lovers who choose each other despite their flaws, and friends who find each other to be so much more. Fictional […]
Spiritual Grooming: When Faith is Twisted Into Control
by Gwen Soat, LCMHCA Spiritual Grooming Faith holds immense power in someone’s life. It is often the most intimate and soul-binding experience. The church is meant to be a place of safety, trust, and meaning. When predators use this soul-focused trust to control and harm, a person’s relationship with themselves, with others, and with God […]
Childhood Sexual Abuse: It Wasn’t Your Fault
Blog by Gwen Soat, LCMHCA ⚠️ Content Warning This post discusses topics including childhood sexual abuse (CSA), sexual violence, trauma, and suicidal ideation. Please prioritize your safety as you read. You are allowed to pause, walk away, or return another day. You are the only you that you have – we want you to care […]
Debunking EMDR Myths: What Christians Need to Know About This Powerful Trauma Therapy
If you’ve ever been curious about EMDR but found yourself hesitant because of what you’ve heard in Christian circles, you’re not alone. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is one of the most misunderstood—but also most effective—trauma therapies available today. As a licensed trauma therapist, EMDR Certified clinician, EMDR Approved Consultant, and committed follower of […]