Written by Gwen Soat, LCMHCA Are you in the Family Fixer role? You Might Be in the Family Fixer Role If… You have become the “therapist friend” or the “fixer partner.” You feel guilty choosing yourself or your own needs if it makes someone else upset. You struggle to say “no.” You anticipate problems before […]
Golden Child Syndrome – What it is and how to heal
Written by Gwen Soat, LCMHCA You Might Be Experiencing the Golden Child Syndrome If… You feel anxious when you’re not being productive You struggle to know what you actually want You seek acceptance, but praise often feels uncomfortable You fear disappointing people more than anything You put everyone else’s needs above your own You’ve been […]
Where Did the Day Go? How to Stop Sleepwalking and Living on Autopilot
Living on Autopilot Have you ever driven somewhere familiar — your office, the grocery store, your church — and arrived with absolutely no memory of the trip? One minute you were pulling out of the driveway, and the next you were already parked. Your hands turned the wheel. Your foot hit the brake. You signaled, […]
The Gift of Self-Compassion: How 10 Minutes a Day Can Transform Your Well-Being
Giving Yourself the Gift of Self-Compassion In our busy lives, it’s easy to overlook the importance of taking time for ourselves. But self-compassion—offering ourselves the same kindness and understanding we would give a close friend—can have a powerful impact on our mental and emotional well-being. You can practice self-compassion in just 10 minutes each day. […]