How to pay for counseling without insurance in Wake Forest NC.

You know finding the counseling in Wake Forest NC isn’t always the easiest process. Counseling is an investment in you and you need to find the right person and place to invest in your time and energy.

You know it’s something you need to do, but the amazing counselor you found doesn’t take insurance. Or you may not even have insurance. Or your insurance has a deductible that’s so high you’ll never meet it in the calendar year. Well, darn. How do you pay for counseling without insurance? We have some ideas for you!

Awhile back we did a blog on some options – you can read that here. Some of my clients told me they couldn’t do some of those things due to transportation issues or family constraints. I’ve been on the lookout ever since to find some options that will work if you have just a computer and a few skills. Here are some additional options for making enough money per week to cover the cost of amazing therapy – and maybe even set some money aside for other things!

Try transcription or captioning.

Rev.com allows you to become a freelancer and watch videos and type what you hear. Simple as that. It pays pretty decently, too! On the low end, at $0.45 per video minute, you can make $27/hour. If you work 10 hours per week, you’d make $270. So, that could be two hours when you get home from work, after the kiddos are in bed, or even in the morning if you get up a little earlier. And, if you can translate another language you can make even more.

Try being a virtual assistant

There are a lot of folks who own small business who need some administrative help. If you have a good grasp on something like Microsoft or Google products, you may be able to make some money helping them get things done. Upwork is a place where you can find projects on which to work. A quick search of available jobs turned up things like copying/pasting data from an email database into an Excel spreadsheet for 10-30 hours per week. Others included typical admin duties. Pay was between $13-$25/hour. Let’s say you worked 10 hours per week making $20/hour as a virtual assistant – you would bring home $200. Easily enough to pay for therapy.

Can You Really Make Counseling In Wake Forest, NC happen for you?

At the end of the day, you will make it happen if it matters to you. Counseling is an investment in you, and you are worth that investment. If you are ready to invest in yourself and the only thing standing in the way is finances, these ideas can help you get where you want to go. We really hope these new tips give you more ideas for how to pay for counseling without insurance.

If you think we might be a good fit for you, reach out today at 919-891-0525 for your free, 15-minute consultation for counseling in Wake Forest NC.

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What is the difference between “counseling,” “therapy,” and “psychotherapy”?

Nothing. They are all words that mean the same thing when we’re talking about getting counseling. Lots of folks use them interchangeably, though that can be confusing for people! We generally use “therapy” or “counseling” in our practice.

What is my first counseling session like? 

We can’t speak for every therapist, but we’ll tell you how it works with us. We have you complete all the paperwork through our secure portal and we’ve already reviewed it before you come in. The session itself is a conversation. We want to get to know you and help you craft some goals for us to work on together. You might come with some goals in mind and we might share some we hear from what you’re telling us. The session itself is like a conversation. At the end, if we both think it’s a good fit and you can meet your goals then we’ll schedule your next session.

How long does counseling last? 

Here is the best response we can give – it depends. If you’ve had counseling in the past and are coming in to shore up some skills or work through a current issue it will take less time. If you’ve never seen a counselor before and you’ve had some really difficult experiences it may take more time. We encourage clients to plan for at least 12, weekly visits with us. We find twelve is enough sessions to get to know you and get you headed where you want to go. Sometimes by 12 sessions you’re done and you graduate and sometimes you need to come longer. We track your progress so we know for sure counseling is helping you. If it’s not we talk about it with you and, when needed, help you find someone who may be a better fit.

Do I have to take medicine to feel better? Do you prescribe medication?

Whether or not you take medication is a personal decision. Some people find it’s helpful and others prefer not to take anything. If we think it might be helpful for you to consider we’ll tell you. We don’t prescribe medications, but we can make a referral to an awesome psychiatrist who can do an evaluation and determine if medication might be helpful.

Is counseling confidential? 

Yes, it is with a few caveats. Nothing is shared about you without your permission – even with a family member. You have to sign a release form so we can talk to anyone about anything, otherwise what you say to us stays between us. The exceptions to this are: You are a danger to yourself or someone else, you are abusing a child, or you are abusing an elderly person. In those instances we are required by law to report these things to the appropriate authorities. One other time we may have to share information is if a court requires that we do so (like a court order).

Do I have to be “mentally ill” to get counseling? 

No, you don’t. Counseling can be very beneficial for a whole host of life’s struggles. Stress from changing jobs, sadness over losing someone close to you, struggles with relationships, and many other things lead people to seek counseling. We often recommend that most people go to counseling at least once in their lives. We all get caught up in our head and can use someone else’s perspective to help us sort through stuff. Counseling can give you a place to do that. And, when people come for counseling when something is just a little struggle it often does not become a big struggle. Think of it like preventive medicine.

Do I have to lay on the couch? Do you even have a couch?

Well yes, we do have a couch and no you don’t have to lay on it. Unless you want to. Then you totally can. A lot of therapists have couches in their office to help you have a comfortable space in which to work. What it isn’t, at least for us and many of the therapists we know, a sterile environment with us peering over our glasses at you. It’s a safe, welcoming space that’s more like a living room.

What else should I know? 

Counseling isn’t all about struggle. We celebrate victories. We laugh. Can it be hard? Yeah – change is hard work. Sometimes we’ve been through hard things and they hurt to talk about. But counseling also can be a great joy and can actually be a whole lot of fun. Our clients are often surprised by how much we laugh together. In our office, change happens and joy that may have been lost returns.

We hope these FAQs about counseling in Wake Forest was helpful in understanding the counseling process. We have more FAQs about counseling in our Wake Forest office here. If you’d like to find out more about working with us, feel free to reach out at 919-891-0525 to schedule your free, 15-minute consultation. We’d love to see if we are a great fit for you and help you get your journey back to joy started!

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Question 6 – Have you ever been to therapy yourself? 

I will tell you right now – the answer to this question should be yes. Every single therapist should go to therapy for him-/herself. If we believe counseling is helpful then we also recognize we sometimes need support. I would be extremely suspect of a therapist who has not been in therapy. How on earth could they understand what it’s like for you to walk through that door and share your struggles if they haven’t done it?

Question 7 – What license(s) and/or certifications do you have? What state(s) are you licensed in?

As shocking as this may sound, not all states require therapists to be licensed. If you want to see someone licensed or your insurance will only pay/reimburse someone licensed you need to know this information. Certifications, while not required, are helpful in understanding any specific areas of expertise for that therapist. Some locations offer therapy at reduced cost through interns. Interns can be wonderful (ours are and our clients LOVE them!), but you will also want to ask how they are supervised and how any issues would be addressed.

Question 8 – Do you take a religious or spiritual approach and, if so, what does that look like?

Some clients really want their religious beliefs and spirituality to be part of a session, while others like to know the therapist understands their faith. Some clients want no spirituality or religious perspective included.

Question 9 – Do you see people only at your office or do you offer video/phone sessions?

Research shows video sessions can be just as helpful as in-person sessions. That said, not all clients prefer that while others love it. The college-age individuals we see love the option of a video session so they can fit therapy into their schedule. Being able to do video or phone sessions are also a great option when it snows in Wake Forest! We know all things close here when that happens, but you don’t have to miss your therapy appointment with us!

Question 10 – What do you charge and do you accept insurance? 

Obviously you’ll need this information to make sure the therapist is a good fit. If you absolutely have to use insurance for therapy then you’ll want to ask if they are in network with your insurance provider. Don’t assume they are – the insurance landscape is pretty complicated and not all therapist take all plans and some take no insurance at all.

Final Thoughts

The last thing to really consider is how you felt talking to the counselor in Wake Forest NC. Did the therapist call you at the time scheduled (if you scheduled one)? Did they seem distracted? Did you feel at ease? Did you feel understood? Did you feel like they answered your questions fully?

All these things can help you find an amazing counselor in Wake Forest that will work for you and we hope we’ve helped you with some questions to ask a potential counselor. If you’d like to find out more about working with us, feel free to reach out at 919-891-0525 to schedule your free, 15-minute consultation. We’d love to see if we are a great fit for you and help you!

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Question 1 – How often do you work with clients like me who are struggling with…? 

Hopefully it was obvious from their website they have experience with what you need, but how often do they work with people like you? If you’re struggling with anxiety how often do they see clients with anxiety? If you’re recovering from past abuse, how often do they work with clients who’ve experienced abuse? This should be an easy answer for a therapist. If you’re looking for help with depression and find the therapist you’ve contacted only ever worked with one client with depression you might want to consider whether they are the best fit for what you need.

Question 2 – What is your general approach to counseling? 

Whatever they say should fit for you. If they say, “During sessions we color the entire time as we talk” and that isn’t a style that gels with you the therapist may not be a good fit. On the other hand, that may sound amazing and exactly what you’re looking for!

Question 3 – Are you more directive or less directive?

There is not right or wrong answer here – it’s what works best for you. If you need a therapist who’s a bit more directive that style will work better for you. If you absolutely hate feeling controlled, very directive may not be ideal. Another part of this question is how are they directive or less directive. What does that mean to them and how does it look? Ask for some specific examples. “Directive” can mean different things to different people so getting more information on what that looks like from the therapist is super helpful.

Question 4 – How often are appointments? 

This is going to vary by therapist. Depending on the style of a therapist and the issues facing the client, there could be a different rhythm. For example, a therapist who sees primarily children may see the child one week and the parent/caregiver the following week. Also, ask why the therapist sees people at those intervals. We see clients weekly because research shows that is how you feel better the fastest and how you create lasting change.

Question 5 – What is a typical session like and how long are sessions? 

This can give you an idea of the rhythm of a counseling session. If the counselor you called only does 90-minute sessions and you’re hoping they’ll see your 5-year-old you might want to get more information because that’s a long session for a little kiddo! If you’re looking for marriage counseling and the sessions are only 45 minutes long how are they structured so the work can get done?

We hope these first five questions help you get started with a counselor in Wake Forest, NC. Next time we’ll cover five more questions to help you determine if a therapist is the best fit for you. If you’d like to find out more about working with us, feel free to reach out at 919-891-0525 to schedule your free, 15-minute consultation. We’d love to see if we are a great fit for you and help you get your journey back to joy started!

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Annie knew something was wrong and suspected she may have an eating disorder. She laughed it off, thinking, “I’m in my 30s. That’s a thing that only happens to young college kids.” Time went on, and Annie realized she was not able to overcome her eating issues on her own. A close friend recommended treatment. Annie thought, “No way. I’ll be the old lady there. I’m a professional business woman. I’ll be this weird anomaly.” But the nagging voice inside her telling her it really was an issue and she really did need help could no longer be quieted. Annie called a local treatment center after doing some research and did a preliminary screening. The screener recommended she be admitted to treatment. Annie was stunned. She asked, “Do I really have an eating disorder? Aren’t those just for kids?” The person on the other end of the line had heard this before and was kind and gentle as she explained that, no, eating disorders are not only for kids. Anyone, of any age, any socioeconomic status, any gender, and any race can suffer from an eating disorder. Annie agreed to enter treatment.

On her admitting day, Annie was terrified. She was shaking and near tears. She was sure – absolutely sure – she was going to be the oldest there by decades. She gingerly walked through the door and surrendered her belongings. After completing all the paperwork she began being included in the program. She was shocked to see she was not the oldest. A diverse array of men and women were there getting treatment. Annie started to relax and joined them on the journey of recovery.

When many people think of eating disorders they think of a white, female, freshman in college who stops eating to avoid the dreaded “freshman 15” and then gets stuck. While that is the profile for some who struggle, that is far from the only face of those who struggle. Anyone, of any age, can struggle with an eating disorder. In fact, according the National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD), 13% of women over the age of 50 engage in eating disorder behavior. Men account for about 1/3 of those diagnosed with an eating disorder. When it comes to prevalence in older adults, even the AARP has taken notice and wrote an article about it in 2014.

If you are a more mature adult and realize you may be struggling with either an eating disorder or have a disordered eating pattern that could become problematic, you may be reticent to seek treatment because you think the only people there will be white, college-age girls. As the story above illustrates, that is unlikely to be true. As someone in your 30s and beyond, you may also be concerned about how to manage your job and home. There are many types of programs out there – some are intensive outpatient and partial hospitalization, both of which can allow you to continue to work – and you can find one that will work for you. Don’t let your fear stand in the way of your recovery.

If you or someone you love are struggling with disordered eating patterns, I would be happy to see how I may be able to help. Call 919-891-0525 today for a free, 15-minute consultation. Appointments may be scheduled for my Wake Forest counseling office or online.

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